FUNDS OF AFFIRMATION (Manipulation)
How it works
You pick a girl you like and set a specific budget in your head for how much you’re willing to spend on her.
From that budget, you start overwhelming her with “love funds of affirmation” meaning you shower her with money, transfers, gifts, dates, and lifestyle experiences (e.g taking her to nice places, sending Opay transfers, buying things for her).
This is done to show you’re an “intentional guy” and make her feel highly valued.
The goal is to quickly make her believe in you and see your offers as better than what she currently has (even if she’s in a stable relationship).
Once the budget is exhausted or he’s “chopped” (got what he wanted), he starts reducing the spending, and the girl often risks or loses her stable relationship chasing the illusion.
I find discomfort in my comfort. What if I never find happiness? Well, who cares? Happiness is a fleeting emotion made for women and children, not men like us.