She sat my aromantic ass down, played me a gorgeous instrumental song, looked me in the eyes and said "this is what it feels to be in love with you" guys it's so over (down bad for her)
.... I just realised I'm the "call them to help if we're moving" friend.. big ass car, enough power and energy to carry a couch up the stairs and the right amount of theoretical insight and patience for furniture building
Sometimes I wish I could help other people be better immediately but the cruelty of life is that the only person who can do that is yourself for you and nobody else