It’s always a healthy exercise to ask your partner what they would do for you in different scenarios:
- what 3 things would you do if you win millions right now? (Pause and allow them break it down and then see where you fit in their plans).
- what would you do if I was kidnapped right now? How would you raise money for my ransom or care for the kids? (Again pause).
- what would you do if you have the option of saving my life or that of my unborn child?
- what would you do if I die? What happens to the kids?
There are no right or wrong answers: it only gives you a glimpse to their mindset.
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If you want something, do it.
You want positive tweets about Nigeria? Tweet them.
You have a voice, use it.
You want people to offer free service? Start with yours.
You want positivity? Spread joy.
You want good governance? Be a good person and don’t cheat others.
Change starts with you.
Some people don’t know where their next meal is coming from or whether they’ll be safe tonight, but you’re out here hyping a trilonaire who fuels chaos from a distance. When survival is the headline, billionaire worship is a distraction. Sort what’s real.
The whole point of sharing your life with someone is to build and grow together, not pour everything into one person while you hang dry. As you grow and build with your partner, don’t forget yourself.