Don't solve temporary problems with permanent solutions. Like getting married to get out of your parents' home or quitting your job because your boss annoyed you.
Learn to sleep over things and breathe. Make a plan.
The outcome may well be the same but at least you'll do so on your own terms.
Stop dating men with high body count. They are emotionally damaged, they can't commit, they lack s£xual discipline, they lack true sense of self, they have nth outside s£xual pleasure, they have STDs and STIs, etc. Do you really wanna deal with all that? Is it worth it?
I was watching ‘The Agency’ when my husband overheard Ofege’s ‘it’s not easy’. He has gone down a rabbit hole of very impressive Nigerian bands from the 70s. The songs he discovered are really beautiful.
My theme for next year is “Doing everything, all at once, every time”. The amount of work I have set up for myself with zero plans as to how I will accomplish them, I know say I dey craze.
Whenever there’s a high profile story about a man or men who have done horrible crimes to women people tend to go “they’re not men, they’re monsters” but they are men! They’re men who have friends and people you know I’m afraid!
same energy with how nigerian men collectively understand hating the police that show all of us shege together but they don’t get why women will say they hate men lmaoo
they will even still tell women to go to the police for rape and abuse cases knowing fully well the incompetence & evils of the nigerian police 😂 crazy ppl
@ytbouthataction Which is cringe because I feel like middle class brits with regular corporate jobs underestimate how far away they are from the Lagos elites. If you’re not in that circle in London you’re not going to be in that circle in Lagos either
Five years ago today and my only regret is that I didn't speak out sooner. To every girl and woman who's paid a heavy price for fighting to retain their rights and boundaries, to every person striving to halt an appalling medical experiment on minors, I salute you. We will win.
Nigerians have this strange belief that we hold some sort of moral superiority over western countries. If nigeria was truly ‘disciplined,’ it wouldn’t be in the state it’s in.
And why would you want to take away the option of better quality education for your children
@AGEMO___ Since X started paying for engagement
People’s yearn for impressions tripled.
Now the rest of us are saddled with having to encounter people and their stupidity on this app.
Everyday there’s always something to pick apart unprovoked
@LaGrecca333 Your friend shares something personal with you all you could do is come here , barg and do engagement farming to tell everyone here how your friend has failed ? Btw your friend knows you posted something like this if this story you claim is real ? How would she feel?