Oma_caramel🦋

Risk analyst

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

@Nenye11111 Yes

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

For the first time in the last five years, I’m excited about Christmas ❤️🎄

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

People call you "independent." But they don't see the version of you who secretly wants to fall apart in someone's arms and actually be caught. You flinch at softness.
You sabotage care. You're scared of being held because part of you still believes: If I lean in, they'll let go.

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

I told my therapist:
"I feel safest when I do everything alone."
She didn't ask why.
She just said

"That's not independence.
That's grief.”

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

You didn't choose to be strong.
You had to be.
Because breaking wasn't an option.
Crying didn't change anything.
And leaning on people?
That shit came with strings, guilt, or punishment.

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

Modern dating? No thanks. I’m not pretending, playing hard to get, or hiding feelings. It’s Saint-Tropez vows or vanish.

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

NARCISSISTS expect everything to go back to normal, as if their actions left no scars. They ignore the damage, and act like nothing happened. No apology. No accountability. Just silence, followed by a sudden return, expecting access to the same version of you they destroyed.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This morning, I shared a DM from lady who had a conversation with her mother.

The mother told her that a woman should sometimes act like a "dunce" when she's in a relationship or marriage.

Over the years, and in my experience dealing with women, I have observed that most

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

@jon_d_doe Their means of enjoyment is mostly sex😩

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

@charlymagne001 @jon_d_doe Thank u

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

@Sir_Gbenga1 @jon_d_doe @henrysol001 Old enough

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

@jon_d_doe Are u guys ignoring the fact that he has access to her WhatsApp msgs? Not like they are even dating.
And cheating cut across all professions not just nursing

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

Companies without culture plans to fail

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WHY YOUR MANAGERS CAN'T MANAGE https://t.co/pKdITrQaPo via @YouTube

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

Your team is one of the things that will dictate if you win or lose. Choose wisely

[Oma_caramel🦋 @ifytobe]

In the boardroom, it’s not the years in your life that counts, but the wisdom in your steps.

[obi-dient chocolate 🍫🥰 @ThiaBaby4]

If you like paint it anyhow.
I'm not cohabiting with anyone's son whilst dating.
Only visits abeg.
If we aren't married, I'm not living with anyone's son.