Onyii

A blooming flower in a field of weeds. unapologetically Igbo 👑 . Art lover 🎨

[໊ @i23yvi3]

My grandmother said, “A woman shouldn't be too independent because men don't like feeling unnecessary.” I asked her, “Why should a woman make herself smaller just to make a man feel bigger?” She said, “Because relationships require compromise.” I said, “Compromise is meeting halfway. Giving up your independence so someone else feels powerful isn't compromise.” My father then said, “But every man wants to feel needed.” I looked at him and said, “Then be the kind of man someone chooses even when she doesn't need you.” Nobody said anything after that. And honestly, I think that's the kind of standard more people should have.

[Akintola Steve @Akintola_steve]

If you’re in Nigeria and your MTN data disappears faster than money in your account, you’re not crazy.

15GB weekly is now ₦6,000.
Not too long ago, that same thing was around ₦2,000.
1GB now averages around ₦575.

Everybody keeps shouting “telcos are thieves”.

But after digging through NCC reports, MTN financials, global pricing data, and industry numbers… the reality is way more uncomfortable than that.

This whole thing is deeper than people think.

[Toby @TomolaGroup]

Fuel just crossed N1,000 in parts of this country and everybody is shouting Dangote. Before you run with that, look at the full picture.

In December, Dangote dropped fuel to N699. Pump prices in Lagos fell to N730. That was three months ago. So what changed.

A war.

On February 28, the US and Israel launched coordinated strikes on Iran and killed their Supreme Leader. Iran fired back. Missiles hit US bases across the Gulf. Drones struck Qatars LNG facilities. Then Iran went after the Strait of Hormuz, a waterway between Iran and Oman where 20 million barrels of oil pass through daily. That is one fifth of the world’s entire oil supply.

Irans Revolutionary Guard said any ship crossing would be set on fire. They backed it up. Five tankers hit. 150 plus ships anchored outside refusing to move. Insurance pulled out. Shipping companies rerouted around Africa. The strait is not formally closed but commercially nothing is moving through it.

Before the strikes, Brent crude was 72 dollars a barrel. Right now it is above 108. Some desks touched 114 this morning. Over 50 percent surge in under two weeks. South Korea says it could run out of gas in nine days. China banned fuel exports. Gulf refineries are shutting down. This is a global energy emergency.

Now bring it to Dangote.

People think the refinery buys crude locally and should not be affected. That is wrong.
Dangote needs 13 crude cargoes per month to run at capacity. NNPC provides 5. Five out of thirteen. The other 8 cargoes, Dangote buys on international markets in dollars at global prices. And even the 5 from NNPC are priced at international rates plus a 3 to 6 dollar premium per barrel. Add freight costs and crude lands at the refinery between 88 and 91 dollars a barrel. When fuel was N774, crude was landing at 68 dollars.

By mid 2025, 60 percent of Dangotes crude was coming from the United States not Nigeria. That route is now far more expensive because of the Gulf crisis.

So Dangote moved from N774 to N995 over four days. That is a 29 percent increase while crude jumped over 50 percent. The refinery said it absorbed 20 percent of the cost to cushion Nigerians. They are selling below what the economics justify.

Now here is what should actually make you angry.

Nigeria produces over 1.5 million barrels of crude daily. We built the largest single train refinery on earth. 650,000 barrels per day. 20 billion dollars. And the government cannot get enough Nigerian crude into it.

The Petroleum Industry Act requires upstream producers to supply domestic refineries. They are not doing it. Government has not enforced its own law. NNPC supplies less than 40 percent of what is needed. The refinery sits in a free trade zone that adds 5 to 7 dollars per barrel in extra charges the government could remove but has not. The naira for crude deal still prices oil at international rates plus premium.

So the one refinery keeping fuel available in Nigeria right now has to fight for crude on international markets against every other buyer on the planet. When a crisis hits, all of that collapses on your head at the pump.

The frustration is valid. N1,000 fuel is brutal. But screaming at Dangote while the government fails to supply crude to its own refinery and refuses to enforce its own laws is how we end up right back here next time.

Ask why NNPC supplies 5 cargoes instead of 13. Ask why the PIA is not enforced. Ask where Nigerias crude is going while its biggest refinery sources 60 percent from America.

Those are the real questions. Everything else is noise.

[Holy Bible @Holy__Bible1]

Heavenly Father,
I come before You with a humble heart.
You are the God who heals, restores, and renews.

Lord, touch my body with Your healing hand.
Remove every pain, weakness, and sickness from me.
Strengthen my blood, my organs, my nerves, and my mind.
Where there is fear, bring peace.
Where there is pain, bring comfort.
Where there is weakness, bring strength.

Jesus, You healed the sick and gave hope to the broken.
I believe You can heal me too.
Fill me with Your life, Your power, and Your peace.

Give wisdom to doctors,
give patience to my heart,
and give courage to my spirit.

I trust You, Lord.
I place my health completely in Your hands.
Let Your healing flow through me today and always.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

women aren't rehablitation centres for badły raised men

[KABUGO @Kabugo_]

Heavenly Father, thank You for another sunrise over my life. I am learning not to rush You. Not to panic in slow seasons. Teach me to respect timing I cannot control. To keep watering even when the soil looks stubborn. To believe that You are never late, only precise. Through Christ our Lord. AMEN

[ᴹᵘᵛᵃ ᥫ᭡ @TvkeOfff]

i LOVE people that KNOW ME! people that know my personality, my tone, how i communicate, my sense of humor, my heart, my intentions. people that i don’t have to sugarcoat or over explain myself to. people that aren’t up in arms every time i open my mouth.

[S𝖎𝖗 S𝖊𝖆𝖓 🇺🇸 @seanpepisky]

Honestly , this question is heavier than it looks.

Because once a woman clocks 30 and she’s still single, the assumptions start.
Not curiosity. Not concern.
Judgment.

There’s this quiet conclusion that she must have done something wrong.
Stayed too long in the wrong relationship.
Focused too much on work.
Was too picky.
Didn’t “behave well enough.”

Nobody ever stops to consider that maybe… life just happened.

Maybe she loved deeply and it didn’t work out.
Maybe she walked away from something that would’ve destroyed her.
Maybe she chose peace over pressure.
Maybe she simply wasn’t ready ,and that should be allowed.

What’s funny is how men of the same age aren’t questioned the same way.
A 35-year-old man is “still building.”
A 35-year-old woman is “running out of time.”

That difference isn’t biology alone.
It’s how we’ve been taught to see women as timelines, not people.

The truth a lot of people don’t like to say out loud is this:
Women in their 30s usually know themselves better.
They’ve learned from mistakes.
They ask harder questions.
They don’t rush because of noise.

And that makes some men uncomfortable.

So instead of saying “she won’t tolerate nonsense,”
society says “she’s old.”
Instead of admitting “she’s more aware,”
they say “something must be wrong with her.”

It’s easier to label a woman than to accept that she chose herself.

Being single in your 30s isn’t a failure.
It’s not a moral flaw.
It’s not evidence of bad character.

Sometimes it’s just proof that you refused to ruin your life just to meet a deadline someone else set for you.

And if that makes people uncomfortable…
maybe that’s the point.

[Echo 🔆 @TheEcho13]

The hottest thing a man can do is make your life easier without announcing it.

Not a speech. Not a grand gesture. Just consistent competence. He confirms the plan, he shows up on time, he handles the small friction before it becomes your job. You don’t have to ‘check in’ to keep the connection alive. You don’t have to manage his mood to keep the night peaceful.

A woman can’t relax into romance while she’s project managing relationship.

[Tylermckenzieco @kenzsinterlude]

Going against an earth angel is the same thing as going against God. Your mission is bigger than you. The reason certain things don’t stick to you, certain plots will never work on you and the projections of certain frequencies will never materialize as your reality is bc you have a mission that is meant to impact MANY, not just you. Ppl who are on the outside looking in are looking at the fruits of your labor that comes w your mission but forget how many ppl you’re contracted to impact & how many ppl they are contracted to impact && how many people they are contracted to impact. It’s a ripple affect. You are important on so many timelines to SO MANY bloodlines and that is why you are so heavily protected. Your mission is meant to impact the world.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

i will never accept the propaganda that someone is too busy to text back lol, like nahhh

[Abass @AbassFx_]

I have a theory of why Davido and the rest didn’t win a Grammy for the last two years.

Western award platforms keep rewarding artists like Tyla in African categories to slowly reshape African music.

If someone can win an African category while sounding very American, other artists might start copying that sound just for recognition.

Even the VMAs gave her Best Afrobeats when she isn’t Afrobeats.

This isn’t just banter. If we’re not careful about what we support, our artists will start losing their originality to chase Western validation.

And honestly, Africans should not use the Grammys to measure success. It’s an American award system full of politics, propaganda, and nepotism.

[Chelsea FC @ChelseaFC]

ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?

[Onyii @igolonwanyi]

@niyetsel .

[Gogo.Sifiso - the seer @theseerheals]

Some often move solo not because they’re antisocial, but because jealousy gets loud around light. Insecure people don’t get mad at what you do… they get mad at what you are. Your peace irritates them. Your growth feels like shade. You remind them of the version of themselves they abandoned, so your existence becomes a mirror they can’t stand to look in. That’s why some only vibe with people who are already good with themselves, intelligent souls don’t compete, they celebrate. Misery studies you, admiration watches quietly, but jealousy pretends to be friendship until your purpose starts working. So you walk alone sometimes, not lonely, just protected, because not everyone can handle standing next to someone who’s aligned, unbothered, and fully in their purpose.

[Onyii @igolonwanyi]

@cowrywise I am not getting a response on WhatsApp. I have a complaint.

[Leaders 𝕏 Junction @LeadersJunction]

This will find you when you need it‼️‼️

[Fem Mindset @fem_mindset]

Most men don't even understand how deep women feel things💔💯

[Onyii @igolonwanyi]

Air peace is getting away with too much nonsense. This is outright diabolical. You escape consequences only because there's no real outrage..
people who should speak up have been silenced with your money.

[Fem Mindset @fem_mindset]

This explains why wise people create strong personal boundaries.🎯