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[Zarish @Zarish5062]

just met a guy last month who casually told me he has a baby that’s only a few months old and asked me out (ick). Moments like that reminded me how differently parenthood is for women. He’s outside flirting and living life like nothing changed. Meanwhile the mother of his child is at home with his kid not even thinking about dating because her whole life has shifted. This is why nobody can ever shame me for choosing to be childfree.. these men don’t want a family unit & yall keep falling for it

[‏ً @itsnwts]

Hot take: A man’s dream of becoming a father is made possible through a woman’s body, her health, her time, her career, and often, parts of her freedom.

Yet when a woman hopes for comfort, security, or a better quality of life in return, she’s often criticized for expecting too much.

[Ms. Ahumuza ✨ @PeshAhumuza]

“Four suspects, including a woman” 🙂‍↔️ I am always amused by how society treats the concept of women being criminals.

[ginger spice @yendysk]

it’s truly not embarrassing as a woman when a man plays in your face. That is out of your control. It’s only embarrassing when you continue to deal w that man or go out sad behind him.

[AsBadasY★uThink @NowayitsNaya]

Rest in peace to all the women we’ve lost to femicide💐🩷

[Nice Kicks @nicekicks]

Who knew a 3-year-old could have this much aura? 🏆

[𝓣𝓸𝓻𝓲 @noid3a_]

"Women are more emotional and tend to act less logically"

[Portia Moemedi @PortiaMoemedi]

Yamal: Mom I’m going to the World Cup
Mom: Take your brother with you

Them at the World Cup:

[M-Jay🪅 @Jamesoflife]

Same way men brand themselves as ‘protectors’ while being the very same people women need protection from

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

And If someone starts a hard conversation with you, it’s often a sign they care enough to keep you in their life. Not that they hate you.

[TAP @TAP_thecreator]

If you avoid confrontation, you’re probably not one of my ppl. Unless, you’re aware of it and open to learning healthy confrontation. I don’t think people realize how your intimacy and bond actually increases with a person when you’re able to respectfully work through an issue.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Soo truee

[ihure keji @ihurenamugongo]

🥰🫶🏾

[tt✮⋆ @Bluebirdeyessss]

life really does get better when you get back into your nerdy interests again

[above the noise ⛰️📚 @bui1tfromash]

Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.

[goma @soigomaa]

Her name is Gina Martin. She was at a music festival in London when a man pushed his phone between her legs and took a photo under her skirt. She reported it to the police immediately. They told her it wasn't a criminal offence. There was nothing they could do.
She went home and decided that was unacceptable. With no legal background, no political connections and no funding she launched a campaign to make upskirting a criminal offence in England and Wales. She petitioned. She lobbied MPs. She spoke publicly about what had happened to her. The government initially blocked the bill.
She kept going. The Voyeurism Act passed in January 2019. Upskirting now carries up to two years in prison. Scotland followed. Other countries are following. A woman at a festival with no lawyer, no funding and no political connections rewrote the law for an entire nation in eighteen months.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

This sentence by Van Gogh hits hard:

“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.”

[Fọlá @lafemmefola]

The stories of mother to daughter abuse that are being shared as a result of this piece is the reason I hate those “give grace to your mother” tweets. Mothers are usually their daughter’s first abusers and we need to talk about this more. It’s a cycle that needs to end!

[Toriss🦋 @toriss__]

That’s why keeping even the little promises you make to yourself has such a huge impact on your self esteem.

[A @orbitingaway]

All married girls i know lost their spark after marriage :(

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

Robert Greene was right when he said:

“Always stick to what makes you weird, odd, strange, different. That’s your source of power.”