please remember that someone else having what you want doesn’t minimize your chances of having it too. another beautiful person doesn’t take beauty away from you! another successful person doesn’t use up all the success out there. scarcity loves comparison because it creates a fake hierarchy. multiple good things can exist at the same time & none of them threaten yours.
you are allowed to receive btw. love, money, support, compliments, opportunities, ease. you don’t have to earn it through struggle or immediately give something back. you’ve always been worthy. good things can simply come to you.
start noticing how lucky you already are. notice EVERYTHING. wow i’m so lucky i have a comfy safe bed to sleep in. wow i’m so lucky i have toothpaste and my own toothbrush. wow i’m so lucky i have people who love me. even when something goes wrong, look for the lucky part. even just the experience.
no offense but literally nothing and no one is and will ever be out of your league. nothing is too good for you. nobody has the right to make you feel like you are not enough or less than you are, you deserve the world
My 20s definitely taught me there's no point in doubling back on anything. No friendship, not a relationship, not a Job. Once it has ran it's course, move accordingly. It's your job to take the lesson, add it to character, and move on.