Be patient with yourself. We've all been hurt & learnt painful lessons. But each time, we pick ourselves up & move on with quiet confidence. This is what beautiful patience is about. It doesn’t complain, knowing the Almighty’s in full control of everything. Relief will come soon!
"Jika kagum kepada seseorang, jangan terlalu dekat dengannya. Sebab kedekatan mendedah kekurangan. Dan kekurangan menghakis kekaguman. Rembulan sangat cantik jika dilihat dari kejauhan. Jika didekati, terlihat kekurangannya."
- Dr. Umar Muhd Noor -
Coping with difficult parents isn’t easy. Accept the fact that your parents did the best they could. Remember, they’re also human, flawed & weak just like everyone. You need to accept them for who they are. You can’t change them. The only person you can change is yourself.
The past is over and done with. You can’t rewrite it but you can certainly reset your future. Make a conscious effort to let go of yesterday and move forward with quiet confidence to the goodness that the Almighty has planned.
"Maybe the brokenness comes to teach you how to kneel. Stop trying to ‘be strong’. We cry, to heal. We feel, to stay human."
--"Love and Happiness", Yasmin Mogahed
Don't let anger control you. Don't let hate breed in your heart. Don't let negativity be the order of your day. Keep your heart guided in the right direction. Keep the Almighty at the centre of your life and you'll live a life of passion and purpose.
Ada 3 tanda hati hati kita sedang bermasalah,
1. Apabila tinggal solat (contohnya solat subuh), kita rasa rilek saja.
2. Bila dah lama tak baca Quran, hingga sampai tak pandai baca, rasa tak ada apa-apa.
3. Mencarut hingga tahap lucah pun jadi biasa. Malah dibuat lawak pula.
If you think you can make yourself great by making someone else look small, think again. Don’t ever belittle anyone. Remember, if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them or make them feel worthless. Give those you meet their due respect.