Once I notice you are trying to get rid of me from your life but you are finding it difficult to go through with it, I will help you. You don’t have to tolerate me. I know exactly when to walk away from people’s lives. And I will always make sure it is not dramatic. Things end.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
Consideration.
If you really love someone, you consider them. You think before you speak, and you move with an awareness of how your actions affect their peace. You care about what makes them feel safe, not just what makes you feel good. If you truly love them, you think about how your actions will affect them.
People reveal themselves in tiny, unplanned moments. The irritation they can’t swallow, the entitlement they can’t mask, the way they behave when they’re not getting what they want.
These things don’t hide for long, but they’re easy to overlook when your imagination is narrating a sweeter story than reality.
Once you understand the seasonal nature of life the hard times aren’t so difficult. It will pass, you just gotta maintain your energy and sustain your drive until things get better. And they will get better, they always do 🙏🏿❤️
I tell you this, as a man:
A man that loves you, will NOT forget your birthday - especially not the first, worse off, the second.
Stop accepting nonsense, in the name of love.
Can’t believe this look was just the for the Introduction and we still have the actual weddings to countdown to! Nigerian designers, makeup artists and hairstylists don’t miss…
What is it about women's financial independence that makes people think it's negotiable, when everyone understands that money is how you get by in this world? I hate how women have to justify why they should have money or work.
In the current economy, majority of men would not get to that level economically. Good men who desire to provide may not even have the resources to. Which means the lives of your children will shrink to accommodate the life in a world where your children need so much to succeed.