Dear men in relationships.
I want to repeat.
If you know that your girlfriend has cheated on you, and you forgave her, please do not marry her.
Break up with her now, and go find another woman to marry.
You'll be miserable in your marriage if you marry her.
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Once two mature adults say to themselves that "we want this relationship to work", it's done.
You the woman must cut off all distractions and focus on your man, show him respect & be feminine.
You the man must keep to your words, & walk the talk. You must show financial readiness & other signs that you want to be a married man.
If you want to cheat, you are better off cheating with prostitutes and pay them off.
Stop cheating with normal women who are also looking for husbands, because they can ruin the beautiful relationship you're building with your girlfriend.
And it can make your serious girlfriend start to lose trust in you, and it can make her to start considering other options, thereby cheating on you too.
Everyday, you come to this community to read posts and comments from different single women.
I sometimes intentionally put these women in the spotlight so that they can be noticed by serious men.
I flirt with them, post their pictures, and give you hints of what you men should be looking out for.
But for some of you, you're cruising.
I am married ooo.
Those ladies are single & want to be married too.
Look at yourself very well as a man.
Are you in your late 20s and in your 30s?
Are you working legitimately?
Do you live alone?
Can you feed yourself, a woman and at least one child?
Then if you check these boxes, you're a potential bachelor.
You'll never run out of totos to fuck.
Stop fucking around and make one lady your serious girlfriend and marry first.
You'll still meet plenty totos ahead.
I have provided several opportunities for both men and women to connect with each other through my platforms.
But lack of seriousness is your undoing.
You people are getting older everyday.
Time waits for no one.
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If your father or mother is above 67, please pause and read this slowly.
At that age, life begins to feel different for them. The world moves faster, but their bodies move slower. The things they once did effortlessly now require effort. Their strength is not what it used to be, and even if they don’t say it, they feel it.
What they need now is not pressure. Not stress. Not arguments about money or past mistakes. They need stability. They need reassurance. They need to feel safe.
If they have savings, protect it. This is not the stage for risky investments or “let’s try this opportunity.” It is the stage for preservation. Capital safety matters more than high returns. Peace of mind matters more than profit.
If they depend on you financially, don’t see it as a burden. See it as a privilege. The same hands that once carried you are now weaker. The same voices that defended you now speak softer. Support them with dignity, not pity.
And beyond money, give them something deeper.
Call them without being in a hurry.
Sit with them without checking your phone every two minutes.
Let them repeat stories you’ve heard before. One day, you will wish to hear those stories again.
At 67 and above, what they truly fear is not death. It is loneliness. It is feeling forgotten.
Take care of their health. Help them organize their documents. Make sure they are not being financially manipulated. Protect them from stress. But most importantly, protect their heart.
Because one day, the chair they sit on will be empty.
And no amount of money will buy back one more conversation.
Please, don't do it!!!
Maybe, occasionally you should do that as an act of romance but it's not to be normalised.
At first, you will be made to see it as "no biggy" but women don't understand things like men.
I don't recommend.
She should take 40 minutes but take both plates away.
Never start what you can't finish, especially for a woman.
Learn or learn the hard way.
For those of you single men above 30 and still thinking that you have not made enough money, but fucking around.
Check yourself & mental health each time you fuck a random lady, & she leaves.
You'll feel empty, lonely & dejected.
You don't have a wife.
You don't have kids.
You keep spending money.
You bother yourself with too many things like:
1) the food you'd eat
2) the cloths you'd wear
3) how to clean your house
4) how to do your laundry
5) how to go to the market
6) what bills to keep track of
7) who to gist with when you're home alone
8) who to remind you of key things
9) who to pray with
10) who to play with
11) who to call you daddy
12) who you tell you "I love you daddy"
13) who to say "welcome home daddy"
14) who to remove your shoes for you, pick up your boxers and stockings on the floor
15) who to go to family events with
16) who to help you manage your money
17) who to take care of you when you're sick
18) who to fuck steadily without spending unnecessarily
19) who to rely on
20) who to massage your ego
Instead of you to focus on mainly one or few things like building & consolidating on your career and making money, while your wife and kids do the rest.
Even if you have a girlfriend, there are extreme limitations.
And you're getting older, procrastinating or fooling around.
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You young men are losing focus, that's is why you are losing hope too.
Especially those of you below 25.
You're fixated on what your criminal age mates age acquiring, & allowing them to distract you.
Focus on your legitimate goal.
Before you're 30, you'll see your life having direction.
And you'd be better placed than your criminal age mates.
Most of them will be useless in their 30s.
But you'll not be.
This I guarantee you.
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You're providing for your wife, and sometimes, she disrespects you.
Then imagine when you can no longer provide?
Especially when the kids are still young.
Your wife may not necessarily cheat on you because you can no longer provide.
But you'll never deny that you will not notice the silent but loud disrespect & lack of submission that you'll experience.
Some wives have more patience than others.
Some may be lean, and others may be fat.
But what is more important for you as a man, is that you hold on to God and ask him to show you mercy, and change your situation before the disrespect becomes loud and bold.
If you are banking on the hope that she will "love" you, just as you love her, you'll be shocked.
Women don't love men.
They are only in love with what you can provide for them.
And this is why I keep telling you young men that transactional relationships are unhealthy.
Women will always love money.
But how you dated her, molded her without money, would go a long way in saving your marriage, should the unfortunate happen to you.
And almost every man would witness downtimes in his finances.
It could be early in your marriage or late in your marriage.
If it happens late in your marriage, do not think that your wife would continue to remember all your years of sacrificing and providing for her, till forever.
At some point, she would run out of patience, and you would start to experience another side of her.
So, what do you do as a man, when things go south for you?
First, if you're jobless as a married man, stop sitting at home.
Go out to wherever to find something to do to bring little money.
Even if the money is not enough to provide for the needs of your wife and kids.
Walka for nothing better pass to sidon for nothing.
Second, swallow your pride, and do not turn down any job offers because you feel it's beneath you.
As long as the job is legitimate, it would keep your mind and soul hopeful and would make your wife see you as that man that believes in providing for his family, even if what you're providing is not enough.
Thirdly, accept that certain things wound change in the dynamics of your home. But as long as your wife has not crossed the red line, remain in your marriage and be a father to your kids.
If your wife wants to use her hands to ruin the marriage because you're no longer the major provider, let it be her decision.
Lastly, if your wife decides to support you without rubbing it on your face, learn to appreciate her, but always remind her that what she's doing for you is a debt.
Even if you may never be able pay the debt.
Like I said, everything that you would witness in your marriage when it comes to finances, depend on how you led your wife during your relationship days.
Because that's the foundation.
Provision is a man's shield, and his ego is his weapon.
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Some of you, the only time that you receive a call from your siblings or relatives, is when they want to ask you for financial help.
They don't just randomly call you, to say that they want to check on your wellbeing.
I will excuse your parents or guardians in this thread.
They're your parents, and you're supposed to be the one calling them, far more than they should be calling you.
As a young man or woman in a relationship.
This is something alot of you may be taking for granted, or have not paid close attention to.
It's not good to be emotionally lonely, when you're building your life or career.
You need that one person that you'd call to speak to, at least once a day or in few days.
Someone you can trust a great deal, & someone that is building with you.
Someone that you'd share your good news with, when you pass that professional exam, or you achieve a major task in your life.
Typically, this period is between the ages of 26 to 30.
I need every young legitimate hardworking man or woman to think critically about this.
Yesterday, I said that most married women who are happy in their marriage, are the ones that met their husbands when they had nothing significant to their name.
And it's true for the most part.
A lot of things can happen in marriage that, if your spouse is not someone that you started life with, & knew him or her to a very large extent, you'd not have patience, or you'd not be so kind to him or her.
Learn not to ruin your young relationship with greed, unnecessary pride or deceits.
Learn that the young girl that you're dating today, & you think she's not beautiful or classy enough for you, is also growing.
And that she will not be like that forever.
Diamonds are not shinny when they're first discovered.
As a young man living alone & working hard, you need a girlfriend.
She's mostly going to be the only one that would be buzzing your phones everyday, & waking you up with loving messages.
You also need someone that can quickly help you reach out to your family, should anything happen to you.
If you keep staying alone, & saying that you don't need a girlfriend because you're "chasing the bag", you'll not understand what it means to have a wife as soon as possible.
And before you know it, you're in your 30s, & now too busy to even date properly.
You'll find yourself doing what you should have done long ago.
And marriage will start to scare you, because almost every lady that you'd meet will want to leech on you, & you may not even be able to trust them.
For you young ladies, my honest prayer for you is that when you genuinely want to commit to a man, may God not bring a deceitful and greedy man your way.
Because some men do not even know what they want.
Just vibes and inshallah with coins in their pockets.
Thinking that they have arrived.
Once you sense that he is not leading you right, lies unprovoked, a bet addict, a fraudster & doesn't speak like someone who wants to marry a wife early, please stop wasting your time with him.
Leave his stupid life alone, & look for responsible men elsewhere.
Let oloshos deal with him.
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You know...
Men and women cheat.
And women cheat more.
Especially single women.
And that's the reality.
The best that I can do, so as to be fair to all, is to advise women to delete all evidences of cheating, & turn a new leaf.
And to advise men not to rub their cheating on the faces of their women.
For those who don't cheat at all, or hate cheating, I respect your discipline.
But most marriages will not be existing today, if cheating was a real deal breaker for women.
And most marriages will not be existing today, if the men caught their wives cheating.
Humans are not truly monogamous.
Cheating can occur at anytime, & anyone can fall the temptations of cheating, if the environment or conditions are right.
I am not a moral police.
I am an imperfect human, & I try to be as realistic and fair as I can, within the ambits of our nature as men and women.
I repeat, men and women cheat.
But consequences of being caught are not the same for men and women.
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