could be nice theme... can't believe how such a simple yet beautiful piece can encapsulate all the love loustat have for each other and their hope for the future
i think kink allows people to construct a specific situation to foster a sexual experience together, and both the planning and execution of that can be both incredibly erotic and intimate as it draws on each others knowledge of their partner and their own likes/dislikes
i think there’s a misconception that vanilla sex is a purer expression of the intimacy but i think this kinda ignores how kink can feed into the eroticism of sex. and im talking about the vast landscape of kink from pink fuzzy handcuffs to scenes planned out days in advance.
Also RJ himself said that his opinions aren’t always the end-all,be-all of canon. and he used some of these as examples! If it isn’t in the show yet, it’s not canon