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Unsolicited and unapologetic opinions, Desi, admirer of good aesthetics

[M @illusiveobv]

@aruvinchan Seems like honeymoon phase, my man! Once it wears off, you might start seeing the deal breakers and go back to loving Dianes and Mikaylas 😆

[M @illusiveobv]

@aruvinchan These are the same people who spread hate against Indians, which is exactly why I don't take them seriously. They're just hateful all around.
You should block them because they add nothing to the conversation, they just spread bad vibes.

[M @illusiveobv]

@aruvinchan Yep, if done the right way, girls love sweet talk...but it should be like seasoning, sprinkled on top of desired food, not served like main course

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty We need desi guys with good vibe make lists based on their experiences. I've met women from Armenia and Azerbaijan who don't get along with each other, yet they both liked Indian guys...maybe cos they both grew up watching Bollywood.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty South Korea! But these "good" and "bad" lists are pretty nuanced. You might find success in a small town in Romania, France, Tunisia or what have you. Gotta go with a good vibe instead of trusting lists made by square guys who are SMVing or have bad vibe.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty Not direct experience but desi guys have reported good things about Serbia and Poland.
Colombia, Mexico, Uraguay/Paraguay are also pretty good for desis. Brazilian girls love outgoing/fit Desis as well.

[M @illusiveobv]

@supertronic3 @Post_Thirty Is it tan or is it culture? They are more open to tanned Indians but not to tanned middle easterners.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty Berlin is excellent if you're into clubbing and alternative lifestyles. I remember a desi guy on Reddit who said he did phenomenally well there.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty I mean, if they get a bad response when they try, they're going to give up and discourage others from trying too.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty Many small city German girls love Desi guys and are very open to them, or they have an aversion to them. There is no in-between lol.

They have been marrying and dating desi guys forever. Three big desi influencers on Youtube have German gfs/wives.

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty I did pretty ok in FL, NorCal, SoCal and Seattle. As long as the vibe of a place isn't anti–dark skin and the girls aren't scared of that phenotype to even be seen interacting, it's an ok place

Germany is polarizing for Desis. The response in East Asia is very location-dependent

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty And all those "alpha male" podcasters teaching dating strategies scare the crap out of Japanese girls.

[M @illusiveobv]

@aruvinchan @bowtiedwhitebat @BlackPilledPaki You would be surprised how many women gets turned on by dark skin men cos they find it masculine. They are just scared of incels and backlash so try to hide it.

[M @illusiveobv]

@aruvinchan @BlackPilledPaki He is a Chadpreet! There are Insta pages of Indian guys/X females.

The amount of backlash Indian dudes get from seething incels is hilarious. Incels are the primary consumers of dating content on YT, Insta, X....so you end up seeing comments from them. It's all selection bias.

[M @illusiveobv]

@AvantPrince_ There is a time and place for speaking slow and time and place for speaking fast

[M @illusiveobv]

@Post_Thirty lol true 🍻
Good to see desi guys in field/on X now!

[M @illusiveobv]

@WestsideLAGuy Looks like Indians have rejected you quite a lot but being bitter is not the way