in less than 5 years ariana got married, divorced, entered a secret homoerotic relationship with her co star, got with a married man who had a baby on the way, left him and got back with her ex
my therapist changed my life when he taught me there are 4 types of conversation:
1) small talk (weather, etc)
2) swapping (you tell a story, I tell a story)
3) listening (you tell a story, I listen/validate)
4) problem-solving (you tell me a story, I help solve the problem)