Ask a woman why she hates men, she'll tell you a horrifying story involving violence, abuse, and harassment.
Ask a man why he hates women, he'll complain about feminists on TikTok, gold diggers, and a girl who once friend-zoned him and wouldn't date him.
When we met, my boyfriend (now my husband) switched his annual leave to my birthday month so he could always be off work to plan whatever I want for my birthday.
Some gestures simply cannot be taught.