i yearn for the kind of connection where you can sit for hours talking about life, fears, secrets, everything and nothing. where both of you feel safe enough to be completely known.
Date somebody who actually wants to experience LIFE with you. Not just dinner and sex. Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, EVERYTHING .
Dating is dead because everybody’s replaceable when someone new is one swipe away. People don’t fight for relationships anymore. They don’t work through problems, communicate through issues, or grow together through challenges. They just swipe, match, and move on to the next person when things get hard. That’s why nothing lasts and nobody feels secure.
Remove marriage from the equation of your life, and you will realize that you don’t have any career pressure, pressure to buy a home at 30, or pressure to buy a car at 30. You will have your whole life to do whatever you want to do. It’s just marriage that puts us in a situation where we feel pressured to achieve all these things at an early age. That’s because we have been conditioned by society to believe that you need to achieve these things if you’re going to get married.
The longer you stay single, the more comfortable you become with not wanting anyone.
Love is cool and all, but you’d rather clap for other people than participate. Talking stages become exhausting because you won’t fight for anyone, and even when you like someone, pursuing it starts to feel like a burden.
Being single is addictive. You get so used to your peace that letting someone into your life starts to feel like a disruption.
Ni contoh good tempo how u want to control the game.
No need to rush. Slow and steady but hit hard deep.
Listen to her moan and how she feels.
Kawal nafas and feel betul2 pussy dia. Rasa kemutan dia. Juicy dia. Spongy spot dia.
Your lack of personal purpose is causing your romantic obsession. When your life is full, you're building something, you're learning something, you're creating something, you're serving someone, you don't have time to spend 4 hours analyzing why they used a period instead of an exclamation point. You read the text, you reply, you move on with your day. But when someone becomes the most exciting part of your life, every notification feels life changing, every delayed response feels personal, every conversation gets replayed in your head like it's game film. Suddenly you're looking for a hidden meanings in messages that were probably sent while they were waiting in line at target. You know, it's it's not that you're deeply in love. It's that your brain has nothing more compelling to latch on to. A relationship was never meant to become your identity. It should add to your life, not replace it. The healthiest people I've met don't love less. They they just have more to love. They have goals, they get them out of bed friends, they invest in hobbies. They're excited about purpose. So, you know ironically, that's usually what makes them more attractive too,because they want a relationship, they don't need one to to feel complete .So before you convince yourself that one person is the answer to everything, ask yourself a harder question if they disappear tomorrow what would still make me excited to wake up? Your answer to that question matters a whole lot more than whether they text it back.