The return of the cutleries 🔥🔥🔥
"Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me" Psalm 23:4
THIS IS IJOBA 606!
#ImisiAyanwale#BBNaija
I saw a lady sharing that her man paid all the bills while she went to school and raised their kids. Now she's a registered nurse, and she's holding things down while he studies engineering. That's what partnership looks like.
There is something that is killing our generation with respect to inter-gender relations. That is strength or the need to be seen as strong.
In projecting strength, many of you have desensitised yourselves from emotional attachment and vulnerability. In extreme instances, you become toxic. That is not healthy.
It is okay to be kind. It is okay to be nice. It is okay to be considerate. It is okay to have affection. It is okay to say "I love you." It is okay to say "I miss you." It is okay to apologize. It is okay to be vulnerable. You cannot love without being naked on all plane.
Kindness and compassion are not weakness. Consideration is not weakness. You are not a sucker for being honourable, for having integrity and for treating others with respect. Let's not destroy the fabric of society by losing our humanity. We need each other.
In every sphere of human relationship, there is an acceptable code of conduct. Please have healthy value system and stick to them.
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Importantly, don't take people's grace and kindness for granted. Nobody is stupid for loving you, for treating you with respect, for being vulnerable with you, for forgiving you, for being nice. Returning a person's kindness towards you with a negative attitude is witchcraft. Do better! The relationships in our lives should inspire us to want to be better because we owe it to these people to do right by them. Nobody can do life alone. We are each other's life raft.
Your husband is the only person who ever loved you purely by choice.
Your family was already written into your story.
Parents loved you because you were theirs.
Siblings stayed because you shared blood.
Even your child is there because you’re the mother.
But your husband walked in as a complete stranger.
No obligation.
No duty.
No shared past.
He could have built a life with anyone else.
Yet he chose you.
Chose to grow old with you.
Chose to call you home.
That kind of love is never automatic.
It is a daily, deliberate decision to stay, especially when it’s hard.
So never forget to thank the man who still chooses you every single day.
I think the excitement for the new season was based off the impacts of 10/10 housemates. They outdid themselves👏🏽
Top 3 seasons of all time and not no. 3🤏
#bbnaijaS11#bbnaija
I saw a post saying that men rarely get compliments and that maybe women should compliment them more often.
The next day, I told a guy at a coffee shop that I liked his jacket.
He took it as an invitation to keep talking, followed me out, and wouldn't leave me alone until I walked into a busy store.
It was a pretty quick reminder that the reason many women hesitate isn't because they're rude.
It's because not everyone hears a compliment as just a compliment.
Arguing with a man that never admit he wrong is like talking to a brick wall. Every lie got an excuse, every betrayal got a reason, every problem somehow becomes your fault. At some point you stop trying to get an apology and start planning your exit. Cause you can’t fix a man that think he perfect.