A man paid this girl on tiktok like 30 bands to lock him in her shed and degrade him for a week and idk why these opportunities don’t arise for me. She was throwing sandwiches at the mf and pouring milk on his head and shit. I got sandwiches AND milk.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
People will assume you’ve never been through anything because you do not have a victim personality and your trauma is not your entire personality. We grow from tribulations over here, not pity ourselves.
people with no character development should scare you.. because how are you the SAME person you were 3 years ago with no growth or elevation of mindset???
Yk what's attractive?? A secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, A man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with you, makes you feel safe, a man who still has same level of respect and love during bad terms !! Top tier.