Most men don’t mind spending money on a woman they like. What men hate is feeling used, tolerated or emotionally transactional.
A lot of women could get far more from men just by being warm, appreciative, attentive & making a man feel desired.
Modern dating is so focused on leverage, power and ‘what can you provide’ that a lot of people forgot seduction is psychological before it’s financial.
And this is what most modern women don’t understand & lack today, the art of seduction.
Might ruffle some feathers
But you don’t pay the money for a ticket to look at the skyline
You pay the money to watch the football on the field
And soldier field is the worst in the NFL at that by a landslide