Having discernment means you might be cast as the villain in places where denial is the norm. Seeing clearly can make people uncomfortable, especially when they have built their identity around avoiding the truth.
People who have done you wrong bank on your silence when it comes to telling people about their transgressions. So sing. ๐ tell the full story and tell it well.
There's a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake, and a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. Mistakes can be forgiven. Patterns should be broken..
You could be kind, genuine, and full of good intentions, but people will still judge youโnot based on who you truly are, but through the filter of their own pain, insecurities, and unhealed wounds. Their judgment says more about them than it ever will about you.
I THINK THE SADDEST PEOPLE ALWAYS TRY THEIR HARDEST TO MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY BECAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO FEEL ABSOLUTELY WORTHLESS AND THEY DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO FEEL LIKE THAT
You deserve someone who's excited to talk to you, to get to know you, to love you fully.
Don't settle for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant or indecisive connections. It's better to be alone than with someone who makes you feel lonely
I swear nothing has caused more problems for me in my life than my inability to say no or turn people down. Soft and empathetic nature costs you a lot...