please date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can. you deserve all of that.
When you make a mistake, go to God and ask for forgiveness, then move on. Don’t keep asking Him again and again, bringing up the same failures. The first time you asked, God not only forgave you, but He doesn’t remember it anymore.
God is going to put you in the right place at the right time.
He's going to send divine connections, people who will go out of their way to be good to you. You couldn't make it happen. It's the favor of God bringing you into your yes.
Wrong Mindset: I'm going to do it my way or not at all.
Right Mindset: I want God's will in every area of my life. I'm flexible to obey and follow Him wherever He leads me. (See Proverbs 3:5-6)
Your mind can betray you, when your heart is heavy sometimes it whispers lies. Things like you're not worth loving, that no one's ever going to want you. It takes a lot of strength to push through it & see the real you. Often you have more going for you than you can see
You can’t change a person’s mindset. Or how they operate. And loving someone harder won’t make them more compatible for you. READ THAT AGAIN. And like I’ve said a million times, “You can’t change how a person thinks. Leave.”