Qadr — If it is meant for you, it will find its way to you.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Know that if the whole nation were to gather together to benefit you with something, they would not benefit you except with what Allah had already decreed for you. And if they were to gather together to harm you with something, they would not harm you except with what Allah had already decreed against you.”
(Jami‘ at-Tirmidhi)
Tawakkul — Place your trust in Allah and keep hope in Him.
Allah says:
“And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then He is sufficient for them.”
(Qur’an 65:3)
Khair — No matter what happens, there is goodness in it for the believer.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“How amazing is the affair of the believer! There is good for him in every matter, and this is not the case for anyone except the believer. If something pleasing happens to him, he is grateful and that is good for him. If hardship befalls him, he is patient and that is good for him.”
(Sahih Muslim)
Sabr — Be patient, for Allah is with those who are patient.
Allah says:
“Indeed, Allah is with the patient.”
(Qur’an 2:153)
Shukr — Gratitude brings increase.
Allah says:
“If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor].”
(Qur’an 14:7)
Qadr teaches us to trust Allah’s decree.
Tawakkul teaches us to rely upon Him.
Khair reminds us that every situation carries wisdom and goodness.
Sabr gives us strength through hardship.
Shukr opens the door to even more blessings.
These are not just words they are foundations for a life connected to Allah.
Stolen Heart
You stole my heart so quietly, as moonlight steals the darkness from the sea.
Now promise me this, my love..
do not turn your eyes away from me.
You have rewritten the rhythm of my days, changed the path my soul once knew.
So stay the same, my beautiful one,
do not become a stranger after teaching my heart to belong to you.
You took my heart..
how softly you claimed it..
so do not soothe me with empty tenderness only to let me fall alone again.
Sometimes I imagine arriving
like spring itself into the quiet garden of your world, a gentle bloom
touching the corners of your life.
And I fear that the days may pass
with this longing still resting in my chest, waiting for the moment
when you say what my soul already feels.
Tonight, promise me only this, that the love you awakened will not fade with the morning light.
For I would gather every fragile blossom of you, adorn your beauty with devotion, and if love demanded it.
I would give even the deepest part of my heart to paint the colour upon your lips.
One day the world will see
what loyalty truly means, for a man lost in love like this does not love halfway.
You stole my heart, my love..
so hold it carefully…
and never turn your eyes away from me…..
If your spouse does not trust you and they are always suspicious of you, you need to read this ...
1. Suspicion doesn't come from paranoia, it comes from patterns. People don't just wake up and start doubting you; your behavior gives them reasons to.
2. You can't demand trust while living suspiciously. Trust is earned, not begged for. If your lifestyle/actions contradicts your words, your words will mean nothing.
3. Every secret you keep is a seed of mistrust. It may look harmless now, but secrets always grow into walls that divide you & your partner.
4. The more you hide, the more your spouse imagines. The human mind fills in blanks and what it imagines is often worse than reality, so you better stop hiding things from your spouse. if you are not open or transparent, your spouse will imagine things or overthink things.
5. Lying to your spouse is not just deception. it is emotional violence. It makes them question their sanity, memory, and worth. If you want trust, you cannot be lying.
6. Suspicion is often a reflection of inconsistent behavior. People feel unsafe when your words and actions don't match. So stop complaining of the suspicion, start being consistent & truthful.
7. Once trust is broken, love alone can't fix it. It takes humility, time, brutal honesty and transparency to rebuild, not just mere apology.
8. When you become secretive, your spouse becomes investigative. Their snooping isn't the problem, your secrecy is. 👈🏽 Read that again.
~DennisAgbeti
Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too. If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.
Maturing is realize some people be damaged before you ever entered the picture. Their wounds were older than you, their patterns were set long before you, and their flame was already struggling. But you see the potential. You see the good. So you love harder, give more, stay longer, thinking maybe your presence will be enough to change the ending. The truth is, you can’t heal what someone refuses to face! You can’t love someone into accountability. No matter how genuine you are, you can’t build something stable on top of unhealed foundations. Some people aren’t evil, they’re just unready. Loving someone who’s unready will ALWAYS cost you more than it builds. You gotta let that shit go 🥴🫳🏽