Date: 24 May 2020.
Time: 8am?
I think i mention smthg yg sensitif? Bukan sensitif but more like courage towards him. Pagi yang emotional every years and tahun ni maybe my words touch his heart as i can see his tears. "kite nk baba sihat jangan sakit2". *hug* โจ๐
@bckupacc99 aku pun okey je kalau nk mkn murah2 sbb sometimes yg mahal tk masuk tekak aku and tk kisah dkt mana asalkan bukan tepi tong sampah ๐คฃ tepi longkang aku bole go lgi hahahah
@bckupacc99 aku dh 2 tahun in relay tak mengharapkan pape surprise pun dri dia just time birthday tahun ni dia bgi fererro satu box and tktau knp tiber rasa terharu sbb dia kata dia tktau nk bgi ayat panjang/surprise semua. since my dad meninggal aku tak hrpkan pape wish or celebration pun๐
To @lotussmalaysia , I really hope this gets your attention. (LOTUSโS SELAYANG)
Today was supposed to be a normal grocery shopping trip with my wife, who is currently 38 weeks pregnant and could give birth at any time.
Instead, it turned into one of the most humiliating experiences weโve ever had.
After we finished paying for our groceries, this staff member stopped us right outside the cashier.
Without introducing himself or explaining the situation properly, he looked at my wife and asked:
โAkak simpan barang apa tu dalam perut?โ
Imagine hearing those words directed at your wife, who is heavily pregnant.
I was shocked. I immediately asked him, โBarang apa yang wife saya curi? Siapa yang nampak?โ
Instead of showing any evidence, he said they wanted my wifeโs Buku Pink as proof that she was pregnant.
That wasnโt enough.
They also wanted my wife to show her stomach to prove she wasnโt hiding stolen items.
Let that sink in.
A woman who is 38 weeks pregnant was being asked to prove her pregnancy because someone thought her baby bump looked suspicious.
At that moment, I completely lost my patience.
I told them if they were accusing someone of stealing, then they needed to provide proof, produce the witness, and call the supervisor immediately.
Instead, we were made to stand there for almost 20 minutes, surrounded by other shoppers, while they tried contacting their supervisor.
My wife was already exhausted from carrying our baby, and now she had to endure public embarrassment on top of that.
When the supervisor finally arrived, I insisted that the cashier who made the accusation come forward.
When I asked her directly:
โBila awak nampak isteri saya ambil barang?โ
Her answer shocked me.
She admitted she never actually saw my wife taking anything.
Her suspicion was simply because my wifeโs stomach โdidnโt look like a pregnant bellyโ and she thought it looked like someone hiding merchandise.
So there was no witness. No evidence. No stolen item. Only an assumption.
Eventually, she apologised to my wife.
The male staff member who confronted us remained silent until I took a step forward to punch him. Only then did he apologise.
Honestly, this isnโt even about the apology anymore.
Itโs about the way my wife was treated.
She is carrying our first child. She is due to deliver any day now.
Throughout this pregnancy, Iโve done everything I can to protect her, reduce her stress, and make sure sheโs comfortable.
Then, in a matter of minutes, two staff members made her feel like a criminal based solely on the appearance of her pregnant belly.
No pregnant woman deserves to go through this.
No customer should be publicly accused without evidence.
If you genuinely suspect theft, follow proper procedures professionally.
Donโt make assumptions.
Donโt ask a pregnant woman to expose her stomach.
Donโt ask for her medical records to prove sheโs pregnant.
And definitely donโt embarrass innocent customers in front of everyone.
I sincerely hope Lotusโs looks into this incident seriously. This isnโt just about us.
Itโs about making sure no other pregnant mother has to experience the same humiliation.
Please do better.
To that guy yang confront us in the beginning, Iโd say it was your lucky day because the only reason I tak tumbuk you was to avoid any violence in front of my wife.
And for you cashier lady, why kau tak jadi doktor je?
A BIOLOGY PROFESSOR SAID:
"YOUR BELLY IS A STORAGE OF CORTISOL WASTE. CLEAR IT WITH ONE ROUTINE BEFORE BED.. AND YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE."
HERE'S THE 9 MINUTE FIX HE PROVIDED: ๐งต
ุงููููููู ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุชูููุฏูุนููู ุจูุตูุฑูู ููููุฑูุฌูู ููููููุจููุ ููุงุญูููุธูููู ู ููู ุจูุญูููุธููู ุงูููุฐูู ููุง ููุถููุนูุ ููููุง ุชูุฌูุนููู ูููุดููููุทูุงูู ูููููู ู ููุตููุจูุง
Allahumma inni astawdiโuka basari wa farji wa qalbi, fahfazhum li bihifzika alladhi la yadiโ, wa la tajโal lish-shaytani fihim naseeba
O Allah, I entrust You with my sight, my chastity, and my heart. Protect them with Your protection that never is lost, and do not let Shaytan have any share in them.
ุงููููููู ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุนููุฐู ุจููู ู ููู ุดูุฑูู ุณูู ูุนููุ ููู ููู ุดูุฑูู ุจูุตูุฑููุ ููู ููู ุดูุฑูู ููุณูุงูููุ ููู ููู ุดูุฑูู ููููุจููุ ููู ููู ุดูุฑูู ู ููููููู
Allahumma inni aโudhu bika min sharri samโi, wa min sharri basari, wa min sharri lisani, wa min sharri qalbi, wa min sharri maniyyi
O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my hearing, my sight, my tongue, my heart, and my desires.
ุงููููููู ูู ุฃูููููู ูููู ุฑูุดูุฏููุ ููููููู ุดูุฑูู ููููุณูู
Allahumma alhimni rushdi, wa qini sharra nafsi
O Allah, inspire me with right guidance and protect me from the evil of my own soul.
ุงููููููู ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ุงููููุฏูููฐ ููุงูุชููููููฐ ููุงููุนูููุงูู ููุงููุบูููููฐ
Allahumma inni asโaluka al-huda wat-tuqa wal-โafafa wal-ghina
O Allah, I ask You for guidance, piety, chastity, and sufficiency.
ุงููููููู ูู ุทููููุฑู ููููุจููุ ููุญูุตูููู ููุฑูุฌููุ ููุงุบูููุฑู ุฐูููุจูู
Allahumma tahhir qalbi, wa hassin farji, waghfir dhanbi
O Allah, purify my heart, protect my private parts, and forgive my sins.
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