the craziest thing about being an adult is that you could go through the most traumatic night of your life and you'll just have to go to work the next day
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
JOB INTERVIEW QUESTION:
"If hired, what's your earliest possible start date?"
Most candidates say:
"I will start ASAP"
"Can I start in 2 months?"
THE WINNING ANSWER:
falling out of love is one thing but slowly realizing your friend isn't a good person/not in alignment with you and needs to be let go is a pain that isn't talked about enough
now take this information and flip it. constantly pointing out the things you are grateful for can train your brain to notice more things to be grateful for. constantly noticing abundance will train your brain to notice even more abundance. flip the script & stay in control.
The biggest skill you can develop is the ability to reset fast. Bad conversation? Move on. Bad day? Start fresh tomorrow. Missed workout? Hit it the next day. Poor decision? Learn and adjust. You canβt control what happens to you, but you control how long you let it affect you.