I saw a reel where a woman said "where are the trad wives who are 40, 50 years old? Why aren't they making these barefoot in the kitchen videos? Why is it always a 20 something year old?" Every woman knows the answer.
@Golgappa_09 Everyone questioning my husband, he does help wherever he can. My daughter takes my feed at night and doesn't go to anyone , yes even my husband at night. We have tried a lot plus he works whole day. He helps in other chores and feeding solids. At night time she gets fussy.
@Golgappa_09 Mainly because of children. I have 8 month old. She doesn't sleep through the night, wakes up a lot and during day I have to work. So my sleep suffers so naturally dark circles.... Women get tons of responsibility as soon as they get married.
Your argument was for people having more kids. When a woman pointed out how expensive education and healthcare is, you pointed out that free education & healthcare exist. If the quality of either isnโt upto the mark, why make the statement at all? You cannot talk about policy in a vacuum. It needs to take in ground realities which yours donโt. So youโre rightly being called out.
@Kendrickkumaaru When you get older you realise not everyone (just because of their age) deserves respect. This is true for many old age indians because they are toxic asf to their children.
@Oyemisty He gets medals because he acquires deals for his ambani adani friends. They in turn reward
his loyalty with medals through various heads of states. Win win situation. He gets to keep fake superiority among his followers and they get lucrative deals.
@veda_padma Yes in fact each pregnancy (same person) is different. I hate when men generalize through these videos. It spreads misinformation which in turn harms a large section of women. Some suffer serious trauma.
Women are not earning to impress you. That is the part you completely missed.
Financial independence means she can leave a bad marriage without starving. It means she does not have to tolerate abuse because she has nowhere to go. It means her happiness is not entirely contingent on whether you decide to stay.
The fact that her salary does not impress you is genuinely irrelevant. Her salary is not for you. It never was.
And any woman whose partner is not impressed by her capability, her ambition and her financial independence should take that information seriously. Because a man who is unbothered by her earning is usually very bothered when she outearns him.