Benjamin Inana

I am a CERTIFIED relationship/marriage counselor. I help singles, and married couple gain clarity in their state of confusion.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

My name is Benjamin Inana. I am a CERTIFIED couple therapist, relationship Counselor, author, and writer.
As a couple therapist, I help to settle marital disputes in marriages, and offer PRACTICAL, and long lasting solutions to their marital challenges.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

If you won't put your spouse FIRST above every other person (including your parents) in marriage, please, remain single!

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

I also help singles to breakup, makeup, and fix their relationships where, and when necessary, for fulfilling experiences.
If you need clarity in any of the aforementioned areas, I am here just for you. Send a DM, and let's talk.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

As a relationship counselor, I offer practical guides to people in a dating and COURTSHIP relationship, who may be confused, doubtful in their relationship journey.
In addition, I also guard them towards making healthy decisions and choices, that would give them fulfilling end.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

If you feel that, because you are more than who can submit to the leadership of a man, it is okay for you to remain single. There is nothing wrong with that, except you want peace to be far from you.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

Do NOT try to lord over your husband, even when you are better than him academically, financially, socially and otherwise.

No REAL man can stand a lady, who wants to lead him. Even the humblest of men would fîght back. That is where the challenge will start from.

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Dear ladies,
If you don't want to have unrest in your marriage, AVOID this 👇. #heatedrivalry

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It is important not to outdo yourself just to be well treated by your partner. Put in all the needed efforts to make things work, but doing more than necessary won't make any difference, if your partner attaches less value to you.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

With little, a partner that has great value for you would treat you right, but with too much efforts, the one that does not have great value for you won't treat you right.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

How well you are treated by your partner, is mainly determined by the VALUE attached to you, and not how good or bad you may be.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

@SaharaReporters How about people start worshipping at and from home in the affected areas, until long lasting solutions are provided to these Incessant abduction and or killing of worshippers during church services? 🤔

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

If things that your partner used to overlook have suddenly become issues of interest to him/her, expect the "breaking news" soon.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

Getting married traditionally and getting wedded in church is a REPETITION of what has been done.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

White Wedding is to the Whites, what Traditional Marriage is to Africans. None is superior to the other.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

In other words, after Traditional Marriage, you don't need to get wedded in church before God can bless your marriage. The blessings of both parents during traditional Marriage ceremony are more than enough.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

If you have reached the decision of getting married, EXCEPT you have too much money to waste, all you need to be LEGALLY recognized as husband and wife before God and man is the mutual consent of both families followed by payment of BRIDE PRICE and other things linked to it.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

If you are an African, and you are single, know this 👇 before you make marriage plans after mutual acceptance.
#marriage

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@renoomokri I agree 💯 with you. These days, marriages have become money making venture for most churches, in that they give unnecessary requirements to be met by the intending couple before they can officiate the marriage. The only marriage recognized is TM, consented to by both families

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Mutual level of acceptance and value are keys in any healthy relationships. No one is doing the other any favour for being with the partner.

[Benjamin Inana @inana_benjamin]

The person CONSTANTLY makes you feel as though he or she is doing you a great favour for being in a dating relationship with you.