Friend was trying to comfort me with statistics, but looking up percentages and numbers as we cut the dating pool down from all women, to lesbians, to lesbians okay with trans people, to ones that would compliment my fetishes, to those that speak english. 160. it didn't work.
So one of the weirder things about learning I'm autistic is now my therapist and I get to play the game of looking at so many events that happened to me and going "was that really ___ like you thought, or was it autism?"