Un dato (o más bien una hipótesis) sobre uno de los cuentos más famoso de Borges: "El sur". Si lo releen prestándole atención al tiempo de los verbos, van a notar que el 99% del cuento está escrito en pasado.
dato random que me fascina de Coltrane: es santo. literalmente. fue canonizado por la iglesia ortodoxa africana. banco completamente porque hacer un discazo así me parece razón suficiente para la santidad.
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he’s a prostitute for rich gay men - serving as a vehicle for romanticizing nihilism and transhumanism for young men
if you consider how fast clavicular got propped up it’s kinda obvious this was playing out
subtly between the lines it is a demoralization campaign against young men trying to convice them that all women are rotten whores and men just need to give up on the world and focus on transitioning into gay twinks for the future tech overlords
In 1975, psychologist Ed Tronick asked mothers to try something simple. Play with your baby normally, then hold a completely blank face for two minutes.
Most babies unraveled in under sixty seconds. They pointed, shrieked, reached out, and when nothing came back, they collapsed. It became one of the most replicated experiments in developmental psychology.
What it proved is something parents feel but rarely name. A kid's play is a question. It only becomes joy when someone answers.
John Gottman later put numbers on the grown-up version. His lab tracked how often people responded to their partner's small bids for attention across years of marriages. Couples who lasted answered 86% of the time. Couples who divorced answered 33%.
The bids always look trivial. A joke, a "watch this," a ridiculous dance by the front door. Answering one takes about six seconds.
Kids remember almost nothing specific from age five. What sticks is the pattern of what happened every time they reached out. This dad just made a deposit that compounds for decades.