In today's age, as a Muslimah if your relationship with Allah and building yourself enough to secure your akhirah is not your priority, toh you go see proper shxge. Because if as a girl you make man your only focus, you will definitely lose your life or sanity in the process.
A sincere prayer for all those silently enduring hardship, putting on a brave smile while battling their inner struggles. May the Almighty bestow His blessings upon them.