Women are literally socialized to fall in love; we will damn near try to fit anyone into that role.
Men are socialized toโฆ not lol plus, they gain nothing from it in a sense.
When women find a man, they find rest. Weight off our shoulders because heโs here to provide and protect and solve all of our problems.. But when men fall in love, they gain a liability. Now they have yet ANOTHER thing to be responsible for, provide for, think for, stick their neck out for, etc. Shit donโt sound fun at all and yet, they do it anyway because they love you.