don't invalidate people's struggles because you've been through worse. if someone is tired after working for 5 hours and you worked for 7, it doesn't mean that they're not allowed to be tired. it doesn't mean they can't feel what they're feeling just because you've had it worse
You’re communicating clearly, by the way. Like, crystal clear. You’ve been very clear. Everything you’ve said actually makes perfect sense and you have explained everything thoroughly. They just don’t give a fuck about your feelings. That’s why nothing’s changing. Block them.
i seriously notice every small change in tone, convo, body language, lack of interest from people, i can even tell tone through texts & i take that to heart.
some people are natural criers. they cry when excited, they cry in grief, they cry in laughter, they cry in rage, they literally cry at any slight emotional experience or state. this is how their bodies process experiences in real time. and that’s okay
like i literally hate to be mad , i hate to be mean , i hate being angry i just hate it … i just want to be nice and soft . I hate having to get out of character for anything or anybody like god please just calm my heart