@orientaldao i relate so hard that was honestly one of the hardest parts about breastfeeding you just get so sick of eating😭😭😭 i hope it works for you!
@orientaldao i was the same way. caloric needs for breastfeeding are much higher than the online estimates lol especially when you’re active! even if my stomach was full my body made me feel hungry until i hit my daily cals and i could never sleep
@waltwhitmangoth@gothluannestar@lullabystarlust@GovernorAnne youre fixating on moms in their 20s and our retirement when thats not even a conversation that comes up for basically anybody in their 20s. like if you were happy with your life choices i dont think you would be ripping on SAHMs lol
@waltwhitmangoth@gothluannestar@lullabystarlust@GovernorAnne obviously it can delay a woman’s career slightly but i dont think youre necessarily moving that far from the mean when most people are doing f all until they’re 30+. there’s a big difference between being a SAHM for 5-7 years and keeping your toe in your field versus 30 years
@waltwhitmangoth@gothluannestar@lullabystarlust@GovernorAnne do you? most people in their 20s spend them in dead end careers & travelling/partying and spending $ on those things and i don’t see people asking them about retirement? i don’t think spending your 20s making sure your kids are home with one parent is a lesser investment
@waltwhitmangoth@gothluannestar@lullabystarlust@GovernorAnne not everything is about money. also tho the woman youre talking to is only 27, has a masters degree, and a job she can do into her 80s if she pleases. why are you so concerned about her retirement? my friends in their mid 20s without kids don’t have careers period
@kiaraimanii_esq cover the expenses for them to work… and they prefer to be home with their kids. also lifestyle inflation is a real thing and not everyone needs $100k a year to live comfortably
@kiaraimanii_esq You guys realize that if a woman doesnt have an established career childcare itself can run $1200-$1800/month per kid right? thats not including costs of a second car, gas, convenience food, etc etc. many women choose to be home with their kids because their income would simply +
@realTanyaTay for real i loved summers off when i was a kid to just run and play and read or write little novels. i’d do whatever i felt like. back to back classes and camp is just school all over again.
@made_in_cosmos lol my mom is like this with my daughter and asked today why my daughter hangs out with me contentedly while i do chores or workout but not with her 😭 cause mom you have solidified yourself as the ‘round the clock playmate lol
@idropFbombs you’re talking about having less muscle girly which won’t do you well in menopause. women who lift weights don’t necessarily have to bulk up a ton and squat 250lbs. many are just maintaining to be strong in every day life, it’s very hard for women to get bulky