Narcissists can’t be wrong. Ever. Because being wrong would crack the delusion. So they reframe. They gaslight. They deny. They blame you. Anything to maintain the version of reality where they’re actually a good person. The delusion is non-negotiable.
Evlenirsen pişman olursun. Evlenmezsen de pişman olursun. Çocuk yapsan da yapmasan da pişman olursun. Kierkegaard bunu 200 yıl önce şöyle söylemiştir:
"Neyi seçersen seç pişman olursun. Çünkü sorun tercihlerinde değil yaşanmamış bir hayatı romantize etmendir. İnsan her daim gidilmemiş bir yolu cazibeli ve gizemli bulur. Bu yüzden mesele en doğru seçimi yapman değil. Hangi pişmanlıkla yaşayacağını seçip karar vermendir."
Sen neye karar verdin?
women: “if men disappeared for one week, we could FINALLY breathe... calm our nervous systems... walk alone at 3 AM, not get creepy comments about our looks constantly... life would be AMAZING, with an incredible sisterhood!”
men: “but who would protect you?”
women: “protect us… from who?”
No entiendo porqué los gobiernos y la iglesia siguen preocupados por la baja natalidad. Simplemente deberían usar las costillas de los hombres para crear nuevos humanos.
Watch the heart-stopping moment a black bear approaches a group of hikers in Chipinque Ecological Park, San Pedro, Mexico, while they manage to stay calm.
There's a line that should never be crossed.
When someone is aware that you're facing death, illness, crisis, or deep personal loss, and they still mistreat you, something darker is at play.
Cruelty in moments of vulnerability isn't accidental. It's intentional.
And when a person can hurt you while knowing exactly how fragile you are, that's not just abusive behavior.
It's a complete absence of empathy.
No one is “owed” sex in a relationship. It’s fair to want sex in a relationship. Mismatched libidos are a compatibility issue & a completely valid reason to break up. It’s not a valid reason to pressure your partner or cheat
Stop calling it communication issues when he understands his boss, his friends, and strangers on the internet just fine. He only becomes “confused” when the conversation requires him to take responsibility and change behavior.
He heard you. He just didn’t respect the consequence. Women don’t get resentful because men “don’t understand”. They get resentful because men understand perfectly and keep choosing themselves anyway.
The mother pleaded with the court to stop her ex-husband from seeing their daughters. The judge denied her. He killed all three children. Yet somehow, the blame is still placed on the mother.
It is no surprise this article was written by a man.