I’ll never forget the time an interviewer asked Johnny Knoxville about the homoerotic subtext in Jackass and he got mad at them for calling it subtext.
"for you, i would" is such a gentle & sweet love language. like, no, maybe i wouldn't usually do this, but i would love to do it if it would make you happy.
"on ur knees"
"good girl"
"look at me"
"use ur words"
"say it louder"
"dont make me ask again"
"beg for it"
"say please"
"thats my pretty girl"
"just like that"
"come here"
"you're mine"
"show me ur tongue"
"dont move"
"im proud of u"
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
“stay with them through the ups and downs."
downs are NOT:
cheating
disrespecting you
abuse
manipulation
gaslighting
control
downs are:
financial hardships
health issues
tragedies
losing the "spark"
not being as close
job losses