Muno ᡴꪫ

beautiful things come and go, but they come ✨️ mostly reading • occasionally writing • 📚 60/50
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[City! @dolapocarter]

There’s just this heaviness in your heart when you think about Nigeria because it doesn’t look like it gonna get better anytime soon

No amount of money can remove that feeling either

[yimikal. @yimikaaaa]

And If someone starts a hard conversation with you, it’s often a sign they care enough to keep you in their life. Not that they hate you.

[ire @ireaura]

i actually really love being nigerian 😭
i just hate nigeria

[Hydra @XBrianDennis]

I can tell you this for free.

There are some situations where people can explain why a murder happened but there is none for rape.

“We were fighting and I pushed him and he fell and hit his head on a slab and died”

“He attacked my wife and I punched him and he died”

“He stole my life’s savings, I tracked him down and took his life”

So many murderers in prison have different excuses for why they committed murder. Could be revenge, could be a crime of passion, could even be an accident, could be self defense.

This is why nuance and context is considered during trials to determine whether a person is truly guilty and even the length of sentence the judge gives.

What you’ll never hear in your life is an excuse for rape.

“I was sexually frustrated and I would have died if I didn’t do it with her”

“I never nack for 3 months and my blood pressure was rising. She was the only one available”

“My penis has been erect for one week. I had to find a solution”

You see how foolish those things sound? That’s why you’ll never hear them because none of them are even near valid excuses.

There is 100% no justification for rape.

It is one of those crimes where the victim becomes a victim for life.

Some of us have had our pockets picked before and our phones and wallets stolen. We grieved over it, e pain us but eventually, we bought new and even better phones and moved on.

No one whose blackberry bold 3 was stolen 19 years ago still reflects about it and grieves over it. The person is no longer a victim.

But with rape, the victim is a victim forever. It is a lifetime of trauma.

IF A WOMAN SAYS NO, SHE MEANS IT. Leave her alone.

[𝖓❦™️ @kushb6rbie]

texting people back is hard as fuck i really do think ur cool i promise, i just can't right now man

[Aspiring Nepo Baby @Marys_Vault]

Hate when mediation happens in sexual assault and rape cases. Kill it

[FAVY_SKY @Iambunnyk2]

The Nigerian justice system is one of the biggest enablers of rape! Victims are always coerced to “settle” because a greedy fucktard couldn’t keep it in his pants.
We need to start the brutal and ruthless killing of men who rape women!
There is no justice anywhere!

[𝒢𝒾𝓁𝒷ℯ𝓇𝓉 @AbakpaJob]

The most tiring thing about adulting to me is how CONSTANT it is.
There is ALWAYS some shit to sort out.
You 'chilling' means you're probably just ignoring the million things on your to-do list.

[ilymjsyk @g4na_xo]

my idea of a risky text is asking for a favor

[Debs @DebbieTiyan]

@KendysonD @jidesanwoolu @hanneymusawa @lirs_govng When the Bible mentions that the enemy only comes to steal, kill, and destroy, it was describing the Nigerian Government.

[zayden @pemilo123]

everything used to be 20 dollars and now that i finally have 20 dollars
everything is now 200 dollars

[han @heymorewords]

the best part about finding new music is getting to take a walk with it

[gabitha. @igabitha]

imagine being raised by a calm mother. what is that like. to have emotion regulation modeled for you like that since you were a child.

[gbemisoke @Gbemisoke]

"I love my parents but..."
in this paper, I will explore the painful dichotomy of loving an abusive parent. The personal, agonizing clash between the hardwired attachment to the person who gave you life & the undeniable reality of the harm they inflicted in the name of discipline

[Debbsss🖤🖤 @BorahEkeyi]

Being a misunderstood child will break something in you only God can heal. Because till today, I still feel like the problem.
In any scenario, in any context.

[Adéifémidé The Salt✨ @MydeNutMid]

It’s okay to appreciate the sacrifices they made while also acknowledging the abuse they put you through, two truths can co-exist.

[OLUCHI🫦 ( you have no funder) @Phatbabeluuu]

Extreme punishments that are only reserved for the poor, mind you Monday the Olodo is their governor.

[Nywele Ngumu @mariahsudi]

If Polygamy and adultery is how African dads ruin families.. religion and religious psychosis is how African moms ruin their families .

[Dexie_🫦 @therealdexie18]

My own is, I don't even remember most of what happened to me between the ages of 5 and 14. It's that bad😭😭

[Sharon Rotimi @TheSharonRotimi]

The quality of life I want to live cannot be lived in this Lagos.