Everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
i don’t carry hate in my heart because i don’t wanna be ugly. i feel like being mean and hateful makes you physically unattractive. it start to show up in your face
It gets to a point where you’ve just got to stop correcting bad behavior and simply end the relationship.
Else, you’ll be in a constant loop of complain > reconcile > bad pattern repeats itself > complain > reconcile…