@bedofbriars technically you can host in any server that has the bot in it and it'll send your info to all of them which is maybe more of a hassle than like just having matchmaking but if you REALLY don't wanna be in the server then you don't HAVE to.
happy pride! if you know me you probably know im trans and lesbian but i don't really post much about gender or sexuality here. im trying to keep this account mostly fgc-related but if u wanna see my infernal ramblings on those subjects you can follow me instead at @BRUISESFAG 🤍