Girl to girl: INVEST IN UR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get ur hair & nails done. you look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat u better, life is better
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills
The best decision I ever made was marrying you, @MichelleObama. For 33 years, I’ve admired your strength, grace, and determination — and the fact that you look so good doing it all. Happy anniversary!