Ann Joy’s secret diary

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After few years in the industry I finally feel comfortable with dirty talk irl and in videos. Turns out it’s so fun, once I let my reserved controlling side chill.

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We still show an ��independent woman’ with a drill, but where is the ‘independent man’ with a vacuum cleaner? A woman is independent when she does extra, and a man is independent by default even when he doesn’t know how to turn on washing machine.

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so that we have to go through a god knows how long of a phase where anyone can use anyone’s persona to create whatever adult content they want and make a shit ton of money off it, it’s crazy.

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Imagine creating AI and all the AI gadgets knowing for sure that it will be used for porn and it will violate women’s privacy especially because duh have you seen internet, and not implementing any regulations on that before it’s out

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Wholeheartedly believing in meritocracy while being a white male born in EU is peak comedy.

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• Being racist doesn’t only mean active acts of aggression
• Denying the racist nature of our socialization only contributes to keeping the status quo

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White fragility book main takeaways:
• You have a choice: to feel discomfort or protect your limited world view
• You can never be non racist, it’s a lifelong unlearning
• Racist ≠ bad person, non racist ≠ good person

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About to go out for a drink with another strange man, and I think I just reached some limit this very moment where I simply can’t go on any more meaningless dates with some strangers whom I’m not very excited about. I’m done

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Why is it that if you want to see someone’s asshole, you can only find it in porn. But if you want to watch someone’s head get smashed in with a hammer, that’s totally fine in a regular series? Why is this so fucked up?

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Tried to watch The Witcher +16. And once again, I’m asking myself wtf is up with how normalized violence is?
Why is it that if I don’t want to see explicit violence, my only option is cartoons or children’s stories?

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If a story has a sex scene, does that mean we should see a penis entering a vagina on the big screen too? Because that’s the “only way” to portray sex accurately?

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A reminder for myself: life is just like TikTok algorithm.

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Doubt is not a lack of trust, it is a 100% of trust in something you don’t prefer.

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Когда ты говоришь «я не верю в себя» ты говоришь «я верю в то, что я не верю в себя» потому что неверия не существует

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Ожидания = ограничения. Ожидает не имеющий

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Being an adult is about realizing the full potential of your inner child as safely and ecologically as possible.

[Ann Joy’s secret diary @insideannjoy]

Manifesting is not a one time thing. We manifest every second, we manifest just by existing. Becoming manifestors is not a thing, because each of us already are. What we can become is aware of it.

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