"If you have an idea of what you want to do in your future, you must go at it with almost monastic obsession, be it music, the ballet or just a basic degree. You have to go at it single-mindedly and let nothing get in your way." -- Henry Rollins
Do you suffer from the fear of the unknown? Here's a remedy, Every time you're fearful of what will happen, say this to yourself; "I can figure it out as I get along. I don't have to know everything." Repeat this statement several times every day until you completely believe it.
If we can release expectations of other people, and ourselves for that matter, life would become much more free flowing and pleasant. People would be more likely to want to be around us too as they wouldn't feel the pressure of having to 'perform' to please us!
“Everything you need to succeed in life was deposited in you the moment God breathed life into you. I know things may be rough and tough and not look like what He’s promised, but if you learn to focus on His promises and not the burdens, yokes are broken.” - @folusoilevbare