Whenever I start making significant progress in curbing my addiction to this app, out of nowhere, a post like this appears and I'm back to square one๐ซ ๐ซ ๐ซ
The women who possess this particular faculty of seeing a man's unfinished architecture before he's even laid the foundation have almost universally been through something that stripped them down to their own studs first. you cannot develop that kind of vision without having been demolished and rebuilt at least once because that is what they are recognizing in you, their own process mirrored back in another body
The women who possess this particular faculty of seeing a man's unfinished architecture before he's even laid the foundation have almost universally been through something that stripped them down to their own studs first. you cannot develop that kind of vision without having been demolished and rebuilt at least once because that is what they are recognizing in you, their own process mirrored back in another body
@KikiowoAyorinde This advice is why UK is tightening immigration rules. If more people do this, it will affect those who actually want to travel purely for study purposes.
People who have not gotten over the idea of being "cringe" in life havent thought about the issue very deeply
Not being cringe means dying, your prioritise what other people want rather than your destiny
That's not the correct way to live
You should deeply own your desire to go on your own journey and you should not be afraid of walking your own path and doing the necessary work to accomplish things that are dear to you, if you feel that spine, water it, nurture it, let it flow through you and guide your life to divine creation and live freely from everyone elses prisons, they would not get you out of prison so do not let them put you in one, control your thoughts, own your choices, own your outcomes, own your soul
If you dont get over being cringe you will live your life in perpetual fear or what other people think and you will be a good little slave in your box because you will not go for anything in life you want
The women you like, you wonder if other people will think she is attractive enough to be your girlfriend so you live in third person cuck mentality forever
The project you care deeply about you do not build thus you do not add value to the world based on what matters to you, because you're afraid some people will not like it; who cares? These people are going to mean nothing in the broader scope of your life
Afraid to say what you think and be cringe who cares if the people who are not aligned on your conduct dont like you, guess what that is just life playing out my friend
You must create your own criteria for success and live by it
Theres a quote I love by Charles Bukowski
"I was waiting for something extraordinary to happen, but as the years went by I realised nothing ever did unless I caused it."
Passivity can waste lives, passivity can erode the very fabric of being, especially for men the world is a canvas for your will to be painted on it, otherwise you will merely be a background ornament in another's painting who has greater and sharper vision/vigor than you.
I love this quote because to me it simply illuminates a beautiful concept that in life you have to be the type of person who is gritty, proactive, forthright and conscious about all of your efforts everyday. You have to voluntarily raise your standards for yourself and step into the light of your potential with consistent effort, consistent strategy, consistent grit, consistently aiming upwards and putting all your will behind your desires and pushing yourself forwards, everyday is a great day to win and it may seem small at first but overtime those wins add up, overtime that momentum builds and you're in a completely different place when you look back.
ONWARDS.
@michaelaromol You got it right in the latter part of your write up. The law constrains them but for good reason. And it is a valid excuse for filmmakers actually, especially when investors funds are on the line. I think it's best to avoid situations that will hinder effective ROI.
@VembeTerver@Aliyahbolanle No, it didn't.
She's saying as she doesn't have money for ransom, she's prepared to voluntarily offer her body instead of ransom๐๐๐
Wild thoughts, tbh.
It's all because of the insecurity in the country anyway.
Life is purely about suffering for men because life is purely about status as a man. You can harp on about spiritual metaphors and perspectives all you want but unless you have cash flow, social skills, work ethic, a high IQ and a fantastic physique as a man your life is going to be very mediocre. You can deny this truth all you want but you'll be forced to face it at some point. Why not do it now. Despite genetic gifts you have to continually grind with daily effort to drag and claw yourself forward even by an inch, as a man one of your best bets is falling in love with the work and genuinely enjoying exhausting yourself doing the right things, if you have an attitude that work is something you have to do, you're born to lose and you're going go get crushed into the dirt by men who do nothing but apply pressure, who do nothing but train, work, think, consume, apply and reflect. In order to get to the highest level in any game it has to be such an intrinsic desire for you to progress you completely disconnect from the process and the hours spent in the middle of the war because you love the weight of your weapon and how it feels to reload it. Sharpening your mind is the activity that will pay the greatest dividends in my experience, pay attention to what is around you, work diligently and forcefully day after day to steal more small victories. They add up.
Every life path has opportunity costs. The opportunity cost of marrying at 24 is some degree of freedom and optionality. The opportunity cost of waiting until 35 is foregoing a decade of partnership, shared experiences, and potentially family life.