most people who actually give bts a chance end up loving them. that alone says everything about how much of the hate comes from preconceived ideas rather than their music. the talent was never the issue
when people ask me how the bts concert was and i can't exactly say it fundamentally altered my brain chemistry, rewired my dna, became the happiest memory of my life and not even the birth of my own child can top this for me so i just go "yeah it was nice, saw them up close"