@pwajok_jane Middle belt is geographically in the northern part of Nigeria. I guess the sec. School yu went to did not teach geography. Its embarrassing to say mid.belt is not north.
This is exactly how Nigeria's elite want Nigerians to be - bedraggled and destitute to the point where a vehicle that would be sold for scrap in America costs 1,000x the monthly minimum wage in Nigeria, and is out of reach to educated, middle-class professionals.
Then whoever can afford a used 2016 Range Rover Evoque plus a poorly constructed "luxury" house in Lekki without drinkable water or street drainage, can swan through the flooded, stinky streets in their 2nd hand SUV with the AC on and windows up on the way to pick up some well-proportioned daughter of nobody who will be made to work very hard for the equivalent of $100 he will transfer to her GTB that night.
The Nigerian "elite" has no ambition for itself and does not see itself as global contemporaries with Chinese, Indian, European, or American elite. It sees itself as the house slave to those people, with its only mission and purpose in life being to ensure that the field slaves under it never rise above their impoverished station to take its place in the global servants' quarters.
And I would know because I come from that very elite.
Lol. I always blame men who don't fix up and give themselves some class.
It is giving audience to these very low tier women that make them want to use you as ladder to get to where you are.
As a top tier man, Any woman that comes around you should naturally behave herself.
But when boys go acting all needy, simpy and optional, you get these mannequins poking hands into your eyes.
Surround your self with quality women and you'll see these ones dream of being in your circle at all cost.
Women will rate you according to the quality of other women who hang around you. If you have hard working girls who have self respect and can afford themselves and their dresses, these flies will be uncomfortable spitting bee noise into your ear.
You can imagine her confidence 🤦🏽♂
Women naturally know women that are bigger than they and are competitive.
So if as a man you go giving audience and consideration to these ones of zero class and poise, sorry o! you are in for an annoying lullaby.
Technically everybody is going to hell. Islam nd Christianity say non believers will perish. Jehova witness say na only them will be in paradise. Protestants say catholics statues are idols, but they use their GOs picture or mantle for protection. We'll all be fine
Even Margaret Thatcher, the longest serving PM in the 20th century and most powerful woman in the United Kingdom and the world, never had a chef in her employ while in power. She cooked every meal for her family.
According to her nanny, "she was ultra-effivient at home to the point you can't fault her." Thatcher made it a point of duty to sort her husband's food and clothes. This is not a question of poverty as some people like to use money to make argument. She was the most powerful woman in the world and would have had many helps if she wanted. Also, her husband was born rich and was a millionaire.
She was excelling at home and at work. But today, people can't turn eba because of online class or GT Bank job and can't boil rice for their family without talking about trauma.
It was probably one of the reasons she was hated because she never used her femininity as excuse and even worse, she was very efficient in all these. She made people know she was first a wife and mother.