@weaverofwoe Sometimes people resist seeing things because seeing them would require grief, change, humility, or a revision of their self-image. Visibility creates the possibility of responsibility, but does not guarantee it.
@weaverofwoe People usually don’t leave because a single “resource runs out.” They leave when the relationship starts feeling consistently unsustainable; emotionally, mentally, or practically.
@weaverofwoe@angel_of_memes I found a quote from Marguerite Duras that said “the woman is the home,” and it resonated with me alongside this entire conversation.
@weaverofwoe I hear this 💯 percent.
This is why it bothers me when someone uses apologetic resets to repair things without actually changing the behavior. A sorry is useless without changed behavior.
@PeterAttiaMD This is a typical apology of when abusers get caught.
If you really felt bad about the abuse of women, you would not speak like that about women in the first place.
This is you trying to save your own ass.
@weaverofwoe Grief made my time sacred
My dad’s passing changed the math.
I don’t spend:
•energy on circular conversations
•peace on ego management
•life force on people who drain instead of meet me
This isn’t coldness. It’s awareness. It’s discernment.
It’s reverence.
@elonmusk if you are so worried about the birth rates in the United States, then help fix the problems. Mississippi is having an infant mortality crisis. Women need support and access to healthcare. Period.
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