I don't understand people. They be saying no one was there for them, but when i try to approach them, try to understand them. They cut you off. Sometimes, it's not your presence they need nor the advice or shit you say. They pick the people who they want for those to hear it.
But if they show or tell me, make me feel like they don't need anyone to be there for them, i end up overthinking and stop trying to approach them at times like that.
I suck at making friends. Sure, i'll tell them i'm just around the corner when they need me. I don't talk first, i observe in silence. But when i see they're really down i'll try to attend them.