Some people are just living. They’re not dating anyone. They have no crush. They scroll from app to app with no one to talk to. They go to work, come back home, eat, sleep, and go to work again the next day.
i want that really cliché friend group that takes long drives together, takes pictures of each other when they're not looking, goes on random picnics, and visits museums together. i want it so bad.
maybe it'll help someone out there but the best lesson I learned in my 20s was to surround myself with great friends who weren't afraid of confrontation & being upfront with how they felt and open-minded in those hard conversations. dealing with indirect people who refuse to address problems directly and yet still talk about the issue behind your back to others will be a big source of anxiety & the pit in your stomach regarding friendships. there's a lot of wonderful people out there, but you absolutely do have to look ✨