Do I want to give my child the privilege of having both mommy & Daddy together? Absolutely I’d go through hell & back for that, but I will not sit in an unhappy toxic miserable situation teaching my child that’s okay to deal with a man’s bullshit for the sake of a child. Nah, sorry!
The day I decided to keep my kids is the day I accepted whatever came with them. Regardless if a mf help me or not THESE ARE MY MF KIDS!!! I got them 😌🤏🏽🤏🏽 FOREVER
All that BM/BD drama is so overrated. If you're no longer in a…relationship with the mother or father of your child, their personal life should not be your concern. If it doesn't involve the child, the conversation should be minimal. Co-Parenting is important but holding on to someone just for your own ego or satisfaction that's dead weight let it go and grow you🤏🏾🤌🏾🤏🏾🤌🏾🤏🏾
I’ll NEVER be in a relationship where arguing every day feels normal. I can’t do that anymore. I'll laugh with you everyday. Talk with you everyday. Build with you everyday. Listen to you everyday. But we’re not arguing. We’re not yelling. We’re not tryna be “RIGHT” in the situation. We not saying "I'm sorry” just to say sorry again. We not playing victim every single day. We growing up over here & we are going to communicate like adults📌.
The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw y’all mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of y’all grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely don’t know what the man’s role is supposed to be and that’s why a lot of yall can’t fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas don’t even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao