thatโs why never EVER lose yourself in the process of loving. ikaw muna. pangarap, mga gustong abutin. sarili mo muna. huwag mong hahayaang magising ka isang araw dahil hinayaan mong umikot yung mundo mo sa isang tao. NEVER.
my favourite quote from atomic habits by James clear;
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting
something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process, is to guarantee disappointment"
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isnโt less love. Check in not out.