In the toxic family system, the healthiest person causes friction. They create resistance in the familiar dynamics and other members become uncomfortable and triggered.
Relationships can become more progressive when you call out red flags or pet peeves in the beginning. It gives you a chance to see if something is a character flaw or can be adjusted. It also gives them chance to take accountability and correct the behavior.
He cooks everyday. Is my best friend. Calls me throughout the day every single day. I am The One. Under his umbrella. Completely protected and heard. And we have two acres and two giant dogs. & probably getting a xmas puppy. I am so fucking lucky.
I’ve been interested in being more feminine lately. Where should I start. Haircut?? Maybe a new wardrobe. Cause all I wear are thuggirl outfits. I want to blossom. I want a complete makeover just dk where to start. I finally have funds and love myself enough to do so. Hmmmmm
Most people DO settle for safe. I am not most people. I want a relationship that’s been thru some shit, which it has, & grown into an irreplaceable bond. Which it has. JDA has held me under his umbrella & accepted the real me. This is the first time I’ve been welcomed completely.