Do shit that scares you. If going to the gym terrifies you, go to the gym. If jumping on sales calls scares you, book more. If talking to females makes your pee pee shrink, approach more. The only way you grow in this world is by grabbing fear by the nuts.
If you’re ambitious I’d highly recommend working in an organization or a team where people have your similar sense of urgency or you will slowly go insane
I have lost all fear of starting again. I can start again on a Thursday at 3 AM. I can rebuild at any age. I will uproot, replant, rebrand and reroute until I end up where I envision myself. That fear and shame of losing and trying again no longer has a home in me.
The older you get, the more you realize luck is mostly exposure. If you sit in the same place, have the same routine, talking to the same people, nothing new really happens. You have to engage the world to win. Travel more. Talk to people.